Between Your Childhood and My Today

How your childhood shapes your life as a highly sensitive person and what you can do differently today.

Between Your Childhood and My Today by Mars Kaiser on a tablet and smartphone

A brief remark stays with you long afterwards. You look for the fault in yourself first. You need quiet, but feel guilty asking for it. Perhaps you want to understand where these reactions come from and what you can do differently today.

In this book, Mars Kaiser combines personal stories with clear explanations and everyday examples. The 277-page English PDF edition costs a one-time payment of US$9.99.

PDF + EPUB + audiobook: all included for just US$9.99

Audiobook note: This audiobook is narrated using the AI-generated voice “Ela”. The content is by Mars Kaiser.

Who is this book for?

For highly sensitive people who want to understand their reactions today and explore their childhood and teenage years. For you, if questions about self-worth, belonging, boundaries or closeness are on your mind. And for parents who want to reflect on what they bring from their own history and how they relate to their children.

What to expect

22 chapters explore your life today, childhood and adolescence, your path as an adult and life with children. Personal stories sit alongside clear explanations and concrete everyday situations. Experiences that gave you support also have their place.

The book explores self-worth, belonging, boundaries, closeness and the need for quiet. Further chapters look at accepting support and finding a way back to each other after arguments or scolding.

What you can understand more clearly

You will read about how earlier experiences may relate to your reactions today. Why you might adapt quickly to others, carry criticism with you for a long time or notice your own needs only later. The book offers ideas for taking a closer look and trying different responses in everyday life.

What you can take into everyday life

You can explore what you need today and which familiar reactions no longer fit your situation. You will find reflections on expressing boundaries, accepting support and reconnecting after a difficult moment. If you care for children, their own view of the world is also a central part of the book.

A personal look at childhood and life today

In this book, I bring together personal stories, explanations and everyday examples. I want to take a closer look at what we carry with us and how we respond to it today.

Looking back is not only about difficult experiences. The things that gave you security, belonging or support are also part of your story.

Your child is seen as a person in their own right, with their own needs. The aim is not to project your history onto your child, but to notice your differences and understand each other better.

What you receive

  • English edition as PDF and EPUB
  • 277 pages with 22 chapters
  • Personal stories and everyday examples
  • Glossary and sources for further reading

Read and listen on your devices

Download the files you want through your purchase download link and save them fully on your device. You will usually find them in Downloads. The EPUB has adjustable text size; the PDF keeps its fixed page layout.

iPhone and iPad

For EPUBs, open Files, touch and hold the file, then choose Share → Books. For the audiobook, install BookPlayer by Gianni Carlo. Save the M4B in Files, then choose Share → BookPlayer. If BookPlayer is missing from the Share menu, open it and import the file using its file picker.

Android phones and tablets

Open the EPUB from Files or My Files → Downloads in a reading app such as ReadEra. Open the M4B in a compatible audio app such as VLC. If it does not play, extract the MP3 ZIP and open the chapter files instead. Keep them in numbered order and turn shuffle off.

Windows PCs and Macs

On Windows, add the EPUB to calibre using Add books and double-click the title. Open M4B or extracted MP3 files in VLC using Media → Open File. On a Mac, use File → Import in Apple Books for EPUB or M4B. Open the PDF in Preview or your preferred PDF app.

ZIP files and offline use

Extract the MP3 ZIP before opening its chapter files. Download each file completely on each device, then test it briefly without an internet connection. Different apps do not automatically sync your files or reading and listening positions. In VLC, note the chapter and time before a long break rather than relying on an exact saved position. Keep a backup of your downloads.

You set the pace

You can read the book from beginning to end or start with a chapter that fits your situation right now. It is not a workbook or a programme of tasks. There is no checklist to work through and no daily challenge to complete.

The book offers personal perspectives, information and suggestions. It does not diagnose conditions or replace medical or psychotherapeutic treatment. It is not a guide to processing trauma and does not promise healing or specific results. If a topic feels overwhelming, you can take a break and seek support that suits your needs.

Understand your story. Shape your everyday life today.

If you want to understand how your childhood may relate to what you experience today, this book offers personal perspectives and ideas for further reading and reflection.

Between Your Childhood and My Today: a one-time payment of US$9.99.
277 pages · English PDF + EPUB + audiobook · Not a printed book

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PDF + EPUB + audiobook: all included for just US$9.99

Audiobook note: This audiobook is narrated using the AI-generated voice “Ela”. The content is by Mars Kaiser.

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